recap of last weeks activities

my babies are getting big, and this momma is anything but happy about it.  yes i like the fact that seany can almost completely dress himself in the morning with the exception of tying his shoes, and vito's vocabulary is to the sky which makes communication these days a breeze. i know stuff gets a bit easier as they get a little older, but for now i'm gonna enjoy every  teeny tiny moment of their innocence.

we pretended to bake delicious cupcakes and sing happy birthday time and time again. we also cooked many tasty meals using their new wooden kitchen set that i was delighted to get a great deal off craigslist.


with the weather finally braking, we took advantage and ventured to the zoo to meet up with friends.  the boys and i took a ride on the beautiful carousel.  poor vito is so scared of tigers his little eyes were nervously watching behind him the majority of the time, just in case one tried to sneak up on him.   and of course we took a gander through the bug house.  of all places and things to see at the zoo, the bug house is seany's top priority.

friday was a very special day for the whole family.  it was gotcha day.  every year on august 12 marks the day   that seany was brought to our home.  the boys and i started our day by  heading over to pick up our special friend kyluan and from there headed strait to the park.  kyluan mastered the monkey bars, and his smile of self pride was brighter than the sun shining in the sky.  the boys climbed and climbed, and rode down the slide over and over.

 

only because it was such a special day mommy dropped 12 bucks on 3 mixed up slurpees that were so sweet   and sour your eyes had no choice but to cross.  what made these slurpees so marvelous was that they were in wwe wrestling cups.  seany and vito chose rey mysterio, and kyluan's pick was randy orton.  these boys go bonkers over wrestling.

on saturday evening hank and i went out to dinner with my cousin jill and had an awesome time.  we ate at vito's restaurant and enjoyed quality adult conversation, which is a treat in its self these days.   all in all we had a  great weekend.

hmm, what to do next weekend???

city museum

saturday started off well.  we hit the gym at 10 am, followed by lunch at goia's deli located on the hill.  it never fails on saturdays.  we always demand to go out for lunch immediately after leaving the gym.  hank and i always joke and say we're just putting the calories right back on, and then some more than likely but at least we don't feel as guilty about it.  we take our time driving back home, and put the boys down for a nap.  hank and i had been talking about each of us taking one of the kids and spending some alone time with them.  we don't do this very often, but when we do, its amazing how different they act with out each other.  i had decided i would hang out with seany and hank would hang out with vito.  after all the time pondering on what to do, all four of us decided to go to the city museum.  we had only been one other time which was last summer, and thought it would be a totally new experience for all of us since we didn't have to lug the stroller with us this time around.      

we had such a great time.  it's amazing how just the boys being a year older makes for a completely different trip.  we climbed through the caves and took some close ups of the water turtles.  vito rode on the tiger over and over again, while seany chose to ride the waves, and hitch a ride from a whale.  building extra tall towers with daddy is always fun, and don't forget about the tiny choo choo train rides.  we made a mess with clay in the art room, and acted silly in a pit of bouncy balls.  we had a blast.

the sun was setting and our bellies were rumbling.  seany was sad to leave but recovered quickly with the mention of white castles.

with full bellies we headed home to get ready for bed.  great times had by all some big, some small!!!

morning at the library

our morning was to go as follows...
wake up, get dressed and ready to be out the door by 9:30, visit the library and attend story time, meet friends for pizza, and back home by 1pm to catch a nap.  well we were all out of bed by 7:30, i only had to tell seany once to put his clothes on, and vito didn't put up a fight when it came time to comb his hair. we were out the door on time and there was no arguing  about what we were listening to on the radio. so far so good!

we arrive at the library and the boys take turns sliding each book one by one through the return bin.  we catch the elevator up to the 3rd floor and spend the next 15mins doing our usual stuff.  seany heads straight to the superhero books and vito sneaks up on the big teddy bear.  poor teddy never stands a chance against vito.  we complete the same puzzles every week, and i graze through books looking for the ones with the brightest pictures and fair amount of text.
at 10 on the dot, we find a seat on the abc carpet and join the others for a welcoming song.  vito's butt usually never stays on the carpet to long and seany appears to be pondering new ways to have all eyes in our direction.   little does he know, we don't have to try at that one.  we sang songs, threw bean bags in the air, and listed to precious rhymes.
due to seany's lack of listening at the library, we were unable to eat pizza with our friends and decided to just go back home.  i threw together lunch, the kids played with blocks downstairs  in the play room, while i crafted with paper, and then time for nap.

wait there's another...vito steven

my littelest cheese burger in paradise, you make mommy's world sooo nice.  vito was born on december 26, 2008.  he was 31/2 weeks early and has been mr independent, even way before the day he decided to make his debut.  due to lack of amniotic fluid vito and i became residents for 4 solid weeks at the hospital. i always felt so alone during those weeks, but now when i look back, my little guy was right there with me the whole time. the name vito comes from my side of the family.  it is my father's middle name and my great grandfathers first name.  steven is my father in laws middle name.  i had known for many years that if i had a son his name would be vito, and seriously can you think of any other name that better suites my bambino. absolutely not!

vito is like a firecracker that is always ready to explode.  i have never seen so much character crammed in one little body. i never get tired of his darling little voice, and i adore sticking my nose in his curly locks of hair.

   vito makes everyday exciting, and as fast as he can turn naughty he's even faster to make me giggle.  silly boy...mamma loves you!!!!


vito enjoys:

sniffing maple(his lovey little dog)
licking everything, yes everything
singing and dancing
bed time stories with mommy and seany
playing with playdough, yes he licks this too
anything his big brother likes

dislikes:

getting his hair washed
being patient
being told what to do


            

seany' poem

i started writing this poem for seany shortly after he came to live with us.  i continued on over the course of 26 long heart wrenching months.  it goes a little something like this:

it seems like just the other day

this precious little angel came my way

looking so scared and all alone

not a soul knowing you were actually home

we tried real hard and made you smile

and asked the lord please bless this child

growing and changing with every day

praying to god please let him stay

thanksgiving christmas easter and all

hoping and wishing you'll be here next fall

only wanting whats best for you

holding my breath for a dream come true

living in fear is never any fun

if i had to do it all over for you would be the one

always believing you were meant to be

now all we need is the judge to agree

JaSean Henry Schwartz is now your name 

loving you forever is the name of our game

the power of prayer is like no other

im honored each day to be your mother

first egg hatched...jasean henry

seany is my oldest son, whom i deeply adore. words alone can not describe my love for this child. yes its obvious he is adorable.  he's got the tiniest little curls that form on the top of his perfectly shaped head, and his eyes are as gorgeous and dark as the bottom of the deepest seas.  when he smiles i am blinded by his beautiful pearly white teeth and his laugh is contagious.  his little body never stops moving, and his brain is always ticking.  he is smart as a whip, and cares mostly about others feelings.  if he is aware that he hurt ones feeling, he will crumble.

yes its obvious we don't share the same blood that runs through our veins, but to us it doesn't matter.  i am his mommy and he is my son.    

seany has been my sweet baby since the tiny age of 9 months, and became a permanent member of the schwartz family on october1 2010. ya there is a lot more to that story, but that is not what is important. we are together, and this momma aint gonna let nobody shake our world.  i believe god had this all planned out and seany is right where he's supposed to be.

a few things sean enjoys:
little brother vito
super heroes and wrestling action figures
dipping all his food in sauce
snuggling on the couch with mommy and vito to read a bed time story
playing with his friends and cousins
swimming lessons
singing to the radio

dislikes:
tomatoes and onions
hmmm????????????

so in a nut shell, seany is a dream come true!!

chicken or the egg??? my rooster

my husband and i have been married over 6 years now, however have been stuck on each others hip for almost 11.  we went to high school together, and after 2 years of his persistence we finally were the real deal.  i cant imagine my life without hank.  who else would put up with my crap?  i believe we are a true match, only others could wish for a soulmate like mine.  we have been through lots together.  we have seen each other at our best, and have also been there to scrape each other off  of the floor.  hank and i share many of the same interests, and our number one priority in life is our children.  ooo our beautiful little children, how we adore our boys!